When Sarah (8 years old) and Jacob (4 years old) are expecting Grandpa and Granny, they keep a close watch on the street to see when they will arrive.  “Granny’s coming!  Granny’s coming!”  can be heard throughout the house.

Even more exciting, Sarah and Jacob each individually go to stay with their Granny and Grandpa a few times each year.  Because they go individually, each child gets a lot of intense one-on-one time with their grandparents and have been able to form even deeper relationships. 

Jacob recently had a “Granny and Grandpa” visit.  He played outside, visited Great Grandpa, visited Bass Pro, and rode his first four wheeler with grandpa.  Granny and Grandpa let him sleep in late, made his favorite foods, bought his favorite toys and books, and took him shopping for his favorite clothes.  The children are never really ready to come home after a wonderful few days with grandparents.

I can remember this special time from my own childhood.  My grandmother must have played thousands of games of Chinese Checkers and Rummy.  She always listened to me.  Even if I was in trouble at home, my Grandma loved me unconditionally.  She taught me to make crafts, and we made cereal treats together.  My Pa would sing and dance with me.  My Papa would play baseball and take me fishing, and my other Grandma had a lot of board games.   I feel so loved by my grandparents.  What awesome memories for me and for them!

So, even though I don’t like for my children to be away from me, I gladly accept the generous offer of sending Sarah or Jacob to Granny and Grandpas.  I love that they have the uninterrupted, individual attention of their grandparents.  They come home happy and look forward to their next visits.  When they aren’t ready to come home or for Granny and Grandpa to leave, I understand how they feel.  I remember how I felt when my parents told me that it was time to go home.  There’s nothing like the warmth and love of a Grandparent, and I am so thankful that Sarah and Jacob have loving grandparents who want to spend time with them.  I miss them, but I would not consider denying them this special opportunity.